I truly wanted to live a life in which I could make my own choices, independent of the 'duties' of my birth and position. It was only when fate granted that to me that I realized the cost of it. I could set aside my responsibilities to others and live my life as I please only when I also severed my ties to them. I could not have it both ways. To be part of a family, or any community, is to have duties and responsibilities, to be bound by the rules of that group. Robin Hobb
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When your parents make you live by their rules, it can be quite frustrating. You want to live a life of your own, but you are also tied to them for certain reasons. However, you cannot have it both ways. When you are part of any group, you have duties and responsibilities that are not necessarily yours. The world is full of people who are bound by the rules of others, though they do not necessarily agree with them.

Source: Golden Fool

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